Use lots and lots of lube, and try not to stress. I know i will never get it back. Nope, there was lots of foreplay and it was incredibly pleasant. Spit is a great natural lubricant. When you feel like you are ready to take this big step make sure there is someone around you trust whom you can talk to. It really hurt but i didn’t bleed much. They could stay up late and watch television.
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This myth might come from the fact that many people do feel some sort of a connection to the person they lost their virginity to, but that’s more of a social construct than a guarantee. It was painful but not overly so. So to use this as a marker of whether or not you’ve had sex just.